An update on the last couple months: As shown in the video and pictures, Patrick was one of the leads in "Seussical, the Musical", playing Horton, the elephant. He and the other kids did a tremendous job and we were immensely proud of him. More importantly, he bonded with a great crowd of kids and also found a calling in drama; which really does fit his personality --(exuberant, joyful and loud!). And even more pride-inducing, he managed to maintain a straight A average. Nathan finished his basketball season as one of the best on his team (Trojans) and was selected for the Loudoun all-star team. This is really his sport. But following lacrosse try-outs it was disappointing that he didn't make the "A" team. That's shown during the season as he has outshined everyone on his lacrosse team. With some reluctance, we've agreed to let him play football in the fall. He's such a passionate jock and does so well at it; giving 110% all the time.
We are, of course, also proud of Christopher (17) because of his diligence and even disposition; working two jobs, volunteering at an animal shelter, playing in jazz band at school and maintaining a good B+ average. And like his brothers, continues to take both private lessons and work in a rock band in Loudoun Music. But he's also succumbed to some temptations that have gotten him in trouble. Smoking pot, for one thing, with some friends who had the hammer dropped on them. What's more, he's used his ADD medications in inappropriate ways. AND, during our drug-testing of him, found that he'd faked the results. Normally, we might be somewhat tolerant of this. But the zero tolerance consequences in his school would mean expulsion (then we'd have to pay for a private high school) and jeopardizing his college prospects. Not to mention the risk he might be taking with our vehicles. But the worst aspect was a feeling of loss of trust,and even betrayal. So we took away his phone, iPod, internet access and limited his mobility. We even canceled a college tour trip to the Tidewater to illustrate that we don't believe he's quite ready for that level of independence. After some store-bought drug tests have shown him to be clean (we hope), we've given most of it back. He recently took the SATs and we're hoping we can renew the prospect of college.
Matt Osterholt and his wife, Assunta, came to visit during the middle of April and I spent three days driving them downtown and around the countryside, including Harper's Ferry, Middleburg and Skyline Drive. They got a 'scratch the surface' kind of look - but a good one for the time they had. I probably talked their heads off, since it was nice to have a friend who shared some interests -- though it also included some anxiety-inducing discussions about musical performance and obligations that I've taken exception to.
For spring break the five of us went to Cacapon Resort in West Virginia, staying in an interesting rustic log cabin. We went hiking, golfing and skeet shooting (though Nathan got hurt with the rifle recoil). The whole experience was a nice reprieve for mom.
The more important things - my projects -- continue with springtime chores. I've gotten some trees and grasses for the hill, lilacs for the side, and rhododendrums for the back. I'd planned on doing more, but I've now hurt my foot (??) and am laid up. I'd thought it might be gout, but am now concerned it's a stress fracture from playing my bass drum pedal too hard. Hopefully, it won't disrupt my trip to Chicago next week(!?!)
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